It is important to manage Dosha and afflictions to marriage. Too many marriages are ending in separation or divorce, worldwide. The people should not be indulging their own desires, nor should they be allowing the darkness of Kali Yuga to infiltrate the mind. People should not be sleepwalking through their lives. We need to manage doshams; we need to neutralize them or remove them.
Psychologists now advise that marriage is one of the most stressful events that happen in the life of a person.
Astrology and Marriage: Issues
There are many indicators for Marriage in astrology; the 7th house represents the Spouse; Mars represents the husband for the Female and Venus indicates Wife for the male. Houses 1, 4, 7, 8 and 12 are important in marriage considerations for both partners. Location of the 7th Lord its placement from the 7th house (bhavat bhavam) are also important. The kundli, the chart can indicate aspects, yogas, afflictions and Kuja dosha. Placements in the Navamsha chart are important also. For those who do not have time of birth, rectification can be done by Sai Bhaarathi, who is an Agastya Nadi astrologer, and refers to Nadi leaves in these situations.
Mars in certain houses creates difficulties in marriage and relationships. Such a placement of Mars shows potential conflict in relationship or difficulties in the life of the spouse. A person with this planetary placement should generally marry someone with a similar placement. There are so many love marriages, so many people getting into difficulties, experiencing rejection and separation – and finally divorce – worldwide. This can be avoided with the help of astrology, use of muhurtam, tarabala: through these astrological indications, people may attain happiness and not misery.
These nakshatras – Bharani, Krittika, Ardra, Aslesha, Magha, Purvaphalguni,Jyeshtha, Purvashadha and Purvabhadrapada are generally not productive of favorable results and should, therefore, be avoided for beginning most important events such as marriage.
Manage, Remove or Neutralize Dosham
It is important to manage Dosha and afflictions to marriage. Too many marriages are ending in separation or divorce, worldwide. The people should not be indulging their own desires, nor should they be allowing the darkness of Kali Yuga to infiltrate the mind. People should not be sleepwalking through their lives; Satya Sai Baba repeatedly taught, “Do not go to your grave weakly imitating others!” Imitation is a form of weakness. Taking of separation and getting divorced is weakly imitating others in Kali Yuga. It is Kahala Yuga if you discuss your marriage problems with others and take their advice. You should be discussing with Ishta Devata, you should be emulating the example of Shiva and Parvathi.
If you have a partner and you want marriage, then proper preparations should be made, internal (the mind, marriage to a large degree is understanding and adjustment) and external (the marriage preparations, the meeting of the families, the reading of the charts and establishing synastry and selection of the most opportune time for a fortunate and blessed marriage). The answers for problems in marriage are not found with the marriage counsellor, the answers are found with Divinity and the proper unfolding of life as indicated in the birth chart, and the remedies available thereto.
“Today there is the tendency of separation, not coming together. Life is full of troubles and challenges. We should not separate ourselves because of these but rather face them together. Now when trouble comes, even if it is small, it separates us. That should not be the tendency, one should give one’s heart to another.” Sathya Sai Baba in Golden Age, pp. 140-143
In the Western world, it is passé to end a marriage if there is dissatisfaction and dispute. This is not true humanness. Dosha, afflictions and problems in marriage should be investigated, and remedies taken up. One should not weakly imitate others and divorce; marriage is for life! A marriage is made in heaven with the help of the planets. There should be a reflection of Heaven on Earth in a marriage, with the help of the planets to remove all afflictions and Mangalik doshas, with appropriate remedies, gems, mantrams, yagnas, offerings to planets at appropriate times. Puttaparthi Agastya Nadi astrologer Sai Bharathi is ready to help those who seek remedies to marriage afflictions.
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